Clarify
who the F*CK you are,
what the F*CK you want, and make it  F*CKing reality. 

the F*ck You Are

Own Who

What if you could rewrite the rulebook of your life in 90 days without burning it all down, having a midlife crisis, or spending years in certifications and programs?

Yes…really…I’m talking about finally getting deeply rooted in who the F you are NOW and actually doing the things you say you want to do so that you can take action and make your next chapter the big, beautiful, bold life you KNOW you are meant to live.

You’ve tried to piece your next chapter together with bubble gum and duct tape, which has just left you frustrated and stuck, floating along and living in an outdated version of yourself.  

let's do this, friemd

After losing my husband, I packed my camera and took off across eight countries, chasing clarity I couldn’t find sitting still.

What I discovered wasn’t just the world. 

I developed my own INNER COMPASS, discovered who the fuck I was, what the fuck I wanted, and made it MY REALITY.

And now, I help other women do the same: own who the fuck they are, reclaim their power, and grab life by the HUEVOS to boldly pursue everything they deserve and desire they want in this one precious life.

Let's embark on a journey together

I AM SO EXCITED TO GO ON THIS JOURNEY WITH YOU

xoxo, Betsy

I get it...

You need to stop settling for “good enough” and start owning your worth, your voice, and your life like the bold bitch you are (on the inside). 

Believe me.I've been there too.

You’ve taken care of everyone else’s needs first and put your big dreams and aspirations on the back burner. 

The self-doubt voices in your head have been holding you back from actually stepping into your next level.

One day, you woke up and realized holy sh*t…10 years have gone by, and you still haven‘t done half the things you know you are meant to do in this life.

You’ve tried goal-setting, memberships, certifications, and nothing has stuck or helped move the needle towards your next-level self.  

You feel like you need a new roadmap for this version of yourself and where she is committed to going, so that you actually get there.

own the room, every room

be a mover & a shaker

Be the One Who Chooses You

Looking in the mirror and not just liking what you see,
but…dare I say…LOVING what you see and knowing that you are magnetic to others too

Putting your dreams, needs, and desires first without having to consult anyone else or letting your nasty voices tell you you don’t deserve it

Grabbing life by the huevos and boldly pursuing everything you deserve and desire

Confidently walking into a room with your shoulders back and head held high, and knowing you belong 

Having an unshakable inner compass that directs your decisions, big and small, so that you always feel like you are moving in the right direction for YOU

know you're pretty f*cking rad

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rewrite the rulebook of your life in 90 days

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know who the F*CK you are is perfect for the woman who is...

“I'm ready to make my next big move happen” 

You don’t need to already have a successful business or passion—just a willingness to begin, get curious, and take action on your move to the next level.

Going through the motions but not actually living the life you want to live

Feeling unsteady, stuck, or unsure of what’s next

Tired of trying to “fix” yourself and ready to actually know yourself and own it all

You’re ready to say goodbye to people-pleasing and hello to real boundaries that free you and put your dreams in motion 

Seeking the confidence to move with intention and make your next big move happen 

Ready to stop second-guessing and start trusting yourself with every ounce of your being

Pursue the biggest, most beautiful, and boldest life you’ve dreamt of! 

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angela, program alumni and boudoir client, ohio

I felt a remembering of who I was AND who I still have the potential to be. This course reminded me that I’ve always been capable, I’d just started floating through life instead of engaging with it.

This course reminded me that I’ve always been capable

Kristy,  group program alumni, belize

It helped me realize that the ‘you can’t’ voice was never truly mine—just something I’d been taught to believe. Now I can tell her to sit down and shut up when she tries to run the show.

Naming my inner pain-in-the-ass voice made a lasting impression.

elaine, program alumni, new york

I really enjoyed each facet of it. Each piece had value that allowed for personal reflection, accessible guidance and functional application with support and accountability.

This experience was like walking along a river, always moving forward

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Ready to own
your NEXT LEVEL?

LET'S DOOOO THIS

Your Roadmap to Radical Freedom in your life

This month, we are focused on mastering your mindset so your true self can step into the driver's seat. You’ll use my Inner Compass model to shift from “I can’t” to “I can try anything.” Through proven somatic and mindfulness practices, you’ll open to what you’re really feeling, meet yourself with kindness, and learn to shift self-critical thoughts on the spot to tame the inner Mean Girl voice in your head.
The reason I know this is going work? Because you will have me and a coven of sisters holding you accountable.

By the end of this month, you’ll be celebrating the things you LOVE about yourself and feel connected with your superpowers and undeniable magnetism, believing that anything is possible!!

Get honest.
Get clear. 
Take the wheel.

Month 1—Awareness, Kindness & the Birth of Your Power

Here’s what our journey will look like:

Month 2—Navigate from Within: Create Your Inner Compass

Once you’ve tuned into your emotional and self-awareness, you’ll begin creating goals based on how you want to feel and the kind of life you want to live. You’ll move past what you think you should do into what you want to do. You’ll connect heart, mind, and body using somatic practices, visualizations, and intuitive check-ins to ground in your capabilities and potential. 

Your newly-built and powerful affirmations and full-body mantras (the kind you feel as much as you say) will ensure that your goals don’t just sit on paper, they live through you, giving you the confidence to build your reality because all things are possible. 

By the end of this phase, you won’t just know what you want—you’ll sense it in your body, trusting your Inner Compass to guide you into aligned action to pursue what’s next.



Month 3—Activate & Embody
Who the F*ck You Are

In Month Three, you go from knowing you’re someone ready to being someone who acts in full force. 
You’ll dive into practical visualizations and challenges that embed your voice, boundaries, and mission into everyday life—yes, this includes “dating yourself” moments so you truly meet and know your own energy. 
You’ll craft a clear life-mission statement that becomes your north star, then map out a personal Roadmap that lets you tap back in anytime you need a reset or realignment.

You will take daily and weekly action steps to put your dreams in motion, whether that is finally writing that book, starting a business, moving to a new city, or beginning to paint again.

This is where you turn insight into action and start living what you’ve learned.
You will practice moving through the world with newfound self-trust, grounded energy, and a deep knowing of who the f*ck you are and what you want! 

Weekly group calls (3 per month) with Betsy

Telegram space for check-ins, reflections, and encouragement

Guided prompts and practical tools to help you dig deep, stay grounded, and apply what you’re learning in real life

A community for collective growth and support

Lifetime access to all materials so you can revisit and realign anytime you need a reset

Resources, support, and sisterhood to navigate the journey to your next level of living

what's included